I was contacted a couple of weeks ago by a Greek BDSM forum called Fantasiesonline to do an online interview. Aparently I am quite popular over there, who would have thought! Anyway, they have translated my interview into Greek so below is the English transcript, hope you enjoy.
Q1
First of all, I would like to thank you for your valuable time. You are a well-known Femdom mistress, BDSM actor and your opinion is very important to all of us. Please tell us a few words about Female Domination and how you learned about aspects of this life for the first time.
MZ: I’ve always been open minded and aware of lifestyles and practices that are a little out of the ordinary. I’ve always been drawn to all things and people that are quirky and unusual.
Q2
You have filmed fetish movies about foot worship, dildo training, feminization CBT , watersports etc. Tell us some details about your movies. The companies you have worked for and I would also like to ask if you accept amateur subs (like us) as actors.
MZ: I’ve made a huge number of films ranging from pointing my iPhone at my subs in real sessions in imperfect lighting to more organized filming days with my husband (Mr. Z) filming me in my “Facility” or a studio. Also I work with The Female Film Maker for shared content, which is great, both parties bring their skills to film day so everyone’s a winner for each other’s members sites and “clips4Sale”. Then there are filming days for The English Mansion. These are very different. I am in their surroundings using their equipment and the EM slaves. However, there was one occurrence where they asked to film me in my own Facility as they had noticed from viewing some of my films that I did seem to have lots of fun things to play with.
As for working with amateurs, I use my own subs that, over a series of sessions have shown their worth or really stood out as one with such an ability with certain practices that I am confident that they will not let me down or beg me to stop and spoil the film. If I use a filming sub he must have references to prove his worth. I simply cannot risk ruining an entire scene, or at worst an entire day by using a sub who says he’s experienced and finding out he’s not.
Q3
Could you tell us your opinion about the need of a man to be dominated? Why does he do that? What does he want? And how do you feel when you dominate a sub ?
MZ: Men have, throughout history, been required to be in charge, to rule. The hunter-gatherer, bread winner etc. This is a big ask! The passive, submissive subservient breed of male needs to leave this behind sometimes, to let go and find his “inner slave”. To be relieved of all the constraints and pressure his masculinity dictates. His day is spent in charge, telling others what to do. His escape from his pressure before he goes completely mad? Hand himself over to a Mistress, a Dominant. He steps into her room and is ordered to remove his clothes (the symbol of his other self) so he is naked, vulnerable. So he is no longer a real male. Now I tell him what to say, what to think. This is what he wants, what he needs to keep him sane. It’s his escape. How do I feel? Comfortable. I enjoy the control immensely. Sometimes, after a particularly intense session I am either, on a high or completely drained. Both happily so. I feed off their weakness and have professional respect for their openness and recognizing their true self.
Q4
Many subs find it difficult to express their needs to their girlfriends or wives. What is the right way to go about it and how should a woman react?
MZ: You’ve got to get to know your partner. For some it will be very obvious from their reactions on the subject of BDSM or all things kink. Mentions on T.V. or reading matter will sometimes get your answer loud and clear. If it’s disgust- leave it, forever. If there is a hint of interest, gradually broach the subject. For some guys it needs to be their secret, it heightens the excitement. Maybe they don’t want their loved one to take on such a role. If the subject is broached the female MUST show understanding and maturity. This moment has taken so much nerve and has probably caused sleepless nights. He’s feeling sick telling you this. Either agree to try, with strict rules and safe words or gently tell him it’s not your thing. Ladies, give your guy a break.
Q5
Which fetish activities do you prefer in your own personal life? Do you enjoy BDSM sessions or you prefer a sensual role?
MZ: Haha,,, now there’s a cheeky one, I’ll pass.
Q6
As a Femdom Mistress , you are well-known and obviously people recognize you as a dominatrix. Does this cause problems in your daily life? How do people react when they recognize you?
MZ: I generally don’t get recognized much, I might see one of my subs in Nottingham or in a bar. I never approach or even make eye contact. I look so different in my role as Mistress Zena that guys aren’t looking out for the girl dressed entirely differently, shopping, having coffee or in the gym. Also, it’s a polite, unwritten rule that you don’t approach a Domme, uninvited, ever.
Q7
What is the most extreme thing you have ever film or perform , and what is the most extreme request that a sub/actor refused to perform in front of a camera?
MZ: My “extreme” films involve medical play- catheter insertion, and bladder control. Needles through the penis head, shaft, and balls (I have extremely long vets cannulas for this) suturing and ball torture/mutilation by nailing them to a block of wood, via either a hammer or a nail gun.
Their ability to take extreme practices has long been established. Only my most hardcore, pain loving, trusted subs are used. Refusal is not an option, I have never experienced it.
Q8
Here in Greece , among members of Greek BDSM Community , you have quite a reputation and people say that they would prefer you for forced feminization & slut training fantasies and extreme BDSM fetishes ( CBT , Fist , Spanking) !
Do you like training a man like that ? What is your opinion about those fetishes ?
MZ: If you peruse my website you will see my list of fetish interests. I genuinely enjoy all of these immensely. The things I won’t enjoy or not allow, under any circumstances, are also outlined. So… I really enjoy training men to take my strap-on anally, orally and doing it properly. I’m one of the few ladies who enjoys fisting her subs, this does not faze me in the slightest. Once the enema I’ve given them has worked it’s magic their rectum is simply a cleaned out place to slip my hand into. They need to be in an ultra-submissive place mentally, and I take that power that’s been handed to me and thrive on it.
Q9
Is there an extreme fetish which you cannot perform because you don’t find a brave sub ?
MZ: No, I’ve found someone for everything I’ve wanted to do. I have a handful of lovely subs that, introduce themselves by stating “I have no hard limits that I know, mistress, I am, over a period of our time together, willing to try anything you want to do to me. I submit to you totally”. This is music to my ears, our journey is a mutually rewarding one.
Q10
What are your future plans ? What to expect from you ?
MZ: Future plans? Learning, enjoying taking new and established subs on this fun journey. More filming. Me, just being me. Busy enjoying my sessions and filming days. I would like, in the future to acquire a larger Facility that can be let out to Dommes for filming purposes and sessioning. Pretty much the same as ever, as long as I’m having fun and the phone keeps ringing, I am staying right here.
Q11
Anything else you would like to say about life as a Dominatrix? Maybe a dream, some thoughts ?
MZ: I love being me, it’s fun, surreal. Always learning and improving my skills. Meeting lovely fun subs, regardless of experience, to take on the journey-my take, my altitude to BDSM. Continue to be true to myself. Professional, courteous, at peace with who I am and what I do with fellow consenting adults. No dream, reality is far more fun!!
As you all probably know I love electro play. Insertables, straps, gloves etc. Silent boxes that just wink a little red light and a number on the screen to let me know how much pain I’m inflicting all so effortlessly and my goodness do I enjoy doing that!
The CBT torture board by Folsom powered by the Series 2 electro unit from E-Stim Systems
This piece of kit has been out of stock forever, it seems, so imagine my delight when it becomes available. Promptly ordered from The USA
My first session after it arrived is with my Mr G, loves electro CBT, has great pain threshold so I can really get stuck in with any new kit. Bits that will be zapped get a coating of lube to help the current flow evenly and with more intensity. Then I slip my flexi-sound down his cock via his urethral opening. Then the board gets put together and wired up to my series 2 box. The brilliant thing about the Folsom is it can have up to 6 electrodes. It had a Prince Albert clip in with its attachments.
It can deliver electrics to every part of the male genitalia; the underside, the tip- the balls have their own section, and a sound can be held in place so I can cook him all over, inside and out. I love the holes at the top from which I can thread a cord round the neck and see how much he can take whilst walking around before his legs go!!
I just love the different reactions from my subs when I use all my electro toys, and I get quite the high from it all. preparation..I get my box ready-one of four, I get the instrument of torture that carries the current attached. I turn the box on and watch with unconcealed delight as the current hits home, sub gasps, jolts. We’re off!
Pain thresholds are all different, so 4 straps on 20% on ‘squeeze’ might not even register to another,that feels like his cock is about to explode, so notes are made in the famous ‘critter diary’ and next sub will ‘enjoy’ 3 straps, the electro sound on a pulse setting at 60%.
My subs are valuable and much loved toys, an outlet for my sadistic cruel obsession with all that involves inflicting pain-the hows and the whys etc, and I’m fully aware that without them an their loyal service I am a very bored sadist with dust covered gadgets! Consequently their devotion allows me the financial freedom to purchase deviant wonderful, fun toys and outfits constantly, not to mention the rental of an entirely separate property in which to play with it all.
Talking of outfits..£700 of Honour clothing will be landing at my house tomorrow!!
Ball (and cock) torture is only limited by Mistress’ imagination. O.k, her slaves pain threshold may come into it a bit.
This film shows the fun I have with a handful of metal clamps I was given. They can, and are, applied to any body part whatsoever. Earlobes, nipples, tongue, head of the penis…you get the idea. As you can see, they are attached to his balls. I thread a stick through to keep them all in a row and once the string is threaded through they can be yanked as one unit, twisted too. I enjoy hanging a set of weights off them via the pulley at the end of the medical bed. It’s fun to add weights one at a time every 5 minutes increasing the subs torment.
Did I mention that a delicious preparation to this procedure is the application of Deep Heat cream? I wait a minute after slowly, deliberately rubbing in a good amount of the cream (which messes with his head nicely, my gentle touch arousing him although he knows this is only going the lead up to the inevitable pain) before closing the clamps on the ball sack. These have a very hard bite and the first one induces an agonized gasp, gritted teeth, clenched fist. His body stiffens, arches and strains against the restraints I’ve fitted to his neck, upper and lower arms, legs which are spread. One by one they snap shut on his hot, red nuts. Once the weights are on I can get on with other things, like rolling the electro-pinwheel along his cock.
I just love the ‘Strap-on’session. I step into the harness, I slowly pull it up, right in front of its recipient keeping eye contact with him as I tighten it up. Once it’s in place it is a part of me.
The unequalled sight that is the Mistress with a cock-so powerful. So, I have a dick and I know how to use it. I take great satisfaction from the look on subs faces as they watch me preparing…excitement, anticipation. More than a hint of fear when they realise it’s way bigger than the dildo they’ve been pracising with at home…
Sub has assumed an appropriate postion of my choosing, whether it’s on his side, knees pulled in as in a humiliating medical type procedure (o.k, albeit my kind of anal examination) or bent over and tied to the ‘rape bench’ or as in todays case, on his back, legs in the air with his upper torso strapped to the bed. He’s lubed up as am I. I’m looking forward to this. He’s a regular slave so he has his hole pounded twice a month.
“Are you ready to get fucked, bitch?”
“Oh, God, yes Mistress. Fuck me..Fill my worthless ass with cock. I want to take it hard for you!”
I get such a rush as I push my cock into his ass. Seeing it slide right in, the entire length. I get a nice rythym going, so deep the harness itself slams against his ass. I grip the sluts thighs so I can pull him to me, just to make sure every last inch in in.
I decide he’s been well and truly done, has been reminded who own him, mind body and soul. I have no more use for him. This supremely Dominant sexual abuser of men has had her deviant needs met. Mistress Zena – sated.
First of all I like to place the sensory deprivation hood over his head. Everything else I do is now unexpected and he can experience the session just by feel. When I know his tiny breathing hole is lined up over his mouth (hold my hand above the hole, tell him to whistle, if I can feel it he can breathe) I can tighten the straps and the head is now firmly encased. To make sure he cant hear anything I place headphones on and put white noise through them. The head is pinned via a posture collar to the medical bed.
I lock his feet together with heavy duty ankle restraints, he becomes aware of the procedure starting, he moans softly as I pull them tight buckle them shut and padlock them together. Thigh to wrist straps are fitted and locked on.
Clingfilm is wound round and round both him and the bed, slowly, deliberately-I don’t rush this process, I enjoy watching the wrap stretch over his body, gripping it and pinning it down. The area that is drawn over his stomach and chest is pulled over so firmly he exhales hard so I pull it a little tighter. I continue all over and around the hood too, very tightly. Complete immobilization. He has no problem with this situation, sure he’s nervous but in a very good way! He trusts me completely, Ive made sure in the pre-session chat that this will give him no problems, and is not a situation he can’t deal with. Quite the opposite! His idea of kinky heaven is, well..precisely the position he’s in right now, then left alone…just left.
Before I turn off what little light there is in The Facility I film his obvious state of ecstacy. His breathing is heavier. The enclosure I’ve made is warming up and becoming like second skin. The wrap he loves so much is pulled tight over his cock, I enjoyed that bit, he’s able to rub himself against it resulting in rock hard arousal.
I stop filming to stand and watch for a moment. He probably thinks I’m long gone. Although I’m not going to be doing anything to him, which is unusual for me as I do like to be hands on, tinkering, it still gives me a surge of excitement. I have total control over him. He has stepped into my domain and handed himself to the Mistress-the complete stranger that he was chatting to for the first time just that morning. He stepped into a strange place and put himself totally in my hands. The amazing trust that subs have never goes unnoticed by myself.
Before I go I gently trace my finger all the way along his body, along his hard cock-I do this a little slower with a satisfied smile on my face-all the way up. My touch obviously takes him by surprise, he gasps, his body stiffens, I hear him groan a muffled ‘Oh, Mistress’.
Once my handiwork has been admired I walk softly away to sit and relax for an hour. I suspect when I get back he will have enjoyed a delicious release- can’t be helped sometimes. Punished? for entertaining me? Nah!
The cock is rigged up to 2 electro straps pulled nice and tight, lightly lubed to give a nice clean sharp current. Ass is filled with an inflatable butt plug for added fullness and discomfort. My E-stim box has a fire button that works with the ‘manual’ setting. ‘Intensity is set to a level that will cause extreme discomfort for a second or two. The fun part of the Fire button is there’s just no getting used to it. A sub can’t settle into the rythym of ‘Pulse’ and his head able to almost block a ‘Constant’ setting, even on high. The jolt of elecricity is entirely down to me. Whenever I feel like blasting his cock with the current, I press my finger firmly onto the Fire button.
His body convulses as the current rips through his cock. Fists clench, he lets out an anguished gasp. He lands back onto the bed breathing rapidly, fearfully wondering how long he has till the next blast. His skinny, pasty carcass is starting to sweat and he makes a funny squelch every time he leaps from the bed!
My fun begins!…Let’s say..every 5 seconds (count to 5, imagine that immense shot of pain)…FIRE!….FIRE! lets pause for 20 seconds..FIRE! I’ll have a little break, sip of water, enjoy the view of a sub who is HOODED-They must be hooded for this.I silently move to the box…you’ve guessed it…FIRE!
This is torture of the mental variety at the same time as the delightful physical kind..Bonus!
Next game..I count down from 5.I know I’m not going to get to zero, he knows I’m not going to get there too. It’s just a matter of which number I to hit the button on. I could do this all day but the 2 hours he’s here will do nicely.
