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    Interview with Greek BDSM blog

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    I was contacted a couple of weeks ago by a Greek BDSM forum called Fantasiesonline to do an online interview. Aparently I am quite popular over there, who would have thought! Anyway, they have translated my interview into Greek so below is the English transcript, hope you enjoy.

    Q1

    First of all, I would like to thank you for your valuable time. You are a well-known Femdom mistress, BDSM actor and your opinion is very important to all of us. Please tell us a few words about Female Domination and how you learned about aspects of this life for the first time.

    MZ: I’ve always been open minded and aware of lifestyles and practices that are a little out of the ordinary. I’ve always been drawn to all things and people that are quirky and unusual.

    Q2

    You have filmed  fetish movies about foot worship, dildo training, feminization CBT , watersports etc. Tell us some details about your movies. The companies you have worked for and I would also like to ask if you accept amateur subs (like us) as actors.

    MZ: I’ve made a huge number of films ranging from pointing my iPhone at my subs in real sessions in imperfect lighting to more organized filming days with my husband (Mr. Z) filming me in my “Facility” or a studio. Also I work with The Female Film Maker for shared content, which is great, both parties bring their skills to film day so everyone’s a winner for each other’s members sites and “clips4Sale”. Then there are filming days for The English Mansion. These are very different. I am in their surroundings using their equipment and the EM slaves. However, there was one occurrence where they asked to film me in my own Facility as they had noticed from viewing some of my films that I did seem to have lots of fun things to play with.

    As for working with amateurs, I use my own subs that, over a series of sessions have shown their worth or really stood out as one with such an ability with certain practices that I am confident that they will not let me down or beg me to stop and spoil the film. If I use a filming sub he must have references to prove his worth. I simply cannot risk ruining an entire scene, or at worst an entire day by using a sub who says he’s experienced  and finding out he’s not.

    Q3

    Could you tell us your opinion about the need of a man to be dominated? Why does he do that? What does he want? And how do you feel when you dominate a sub ?

    MZ: Men have, throughout history, been required to be in charge, to rule. The hunter-gatherer, bread winner etc. This is a big ask! The passive, submissive subservient  breed of male needs to leave this behind sometimes, to let go and find his “inner slave”. To be relieved of all the constraints and pressure his masculinity dictates. His day is spent in charge, telling others what to do. His escape from his pressure before he goes completely mad? Hand himself over to a Mistress, a Dominant. He steps into her room and is ordered to remove his clothes (the symbol of his other self) so he is naked, vulnerable. So he is no longer a real male. Now I tell him what to say, what to think. This is what he wants, what he needs to keep him sane. It’s his escape. How do I feel? Comfortable. I enjoy the control immensely. Sometimes, after a particularly intense session I am either, on a high or completely drained. Both happily so. I feed off their weakness and have professional respect for their openness and recognizing their true self.

    Q4

    Many subs find it difficult to express their needs to their girlfriends or wives. What is the right way to go about it and how should a woman react?

    MZ: You’ve got to get to know your partner. For some it will be very obvious from their reactions on the subject of BDSM or all things kink. Mentions on T.V. or reading matter will sometimes get your answer loud and clear. If it’s disgust- leave it, forever. If there is a hint of interest, gradually broach the subject. For some guys it needs to be their secret, it heightens the excitement. Maybe they don’t want their loved one to take on such a role. If the subject is broached the female MUST show understanding and maturity. This moment has taken so much nerve and has probably caused sleepless nights. He’s feeling sick telling you this. Either agree to try, with strict rules and safe words or gently tell him it’s not your thing. Ladies, give your guy a break.

    Q5

    Which fetish activities do you prefer in your own personal life? Do you enjoy BDSM sessions or you prefer a sensual role?

    MZ: Haha,,, now there’s a cheeky one, I’ll pass.

    Q6

    As a Femdom Mistress , you are  well-known and obviously people recognize you as a dominatrix. Does this cause problems in your daily life? How do people react when they recognize you?

    MZ: I generally don’t get recognized much, I might see one of my subs in Nottingham or in a bar. I never approach or even make eye contact. I look so different in my role as Mistress Zena that guys aren’t looking out for the girl dressed entirely differently, shopping, having coffee or in the gym. Also, it’s a polite, unwritten rule that you don’t approach a Domme, uninvited, ever.

    Q7

    What is the most extreme thing you have ever film or perform , and what is the most extreme request that a sub/actor refused to perform in front of a camera?

    MZ: My “extreme” films involve medical play- catheter insertion, and bladder control. Needles through the penis head, shaft, and balls (I have extremely long vets cannulas for this) suturing and ball torture/mutilation by nailing them to a block of wood, via either a hammer or a nail gun.

    Their ability to take extreme practices has long been established. Only my most hardcore, pain loving, trusted subs are used. Refusal is not an option, I have never experienced it.

    Q8

    Here in Greece , among members of Greek BDSM Community , you have quite a reputation and people say that they would prefer you for forced feminization & slut training fantasies and extreme BDSM fetishes ( CBT , Fist , Spanking)  !

    Do you like training a man like that  ? What is your opinion about those fetishes ?

    MZ: If you peruse my website you will see my list of fetish interests. I genuinely enjoy all of these immensely. The things I won’t enjoy or not allow, under any circumstances, are also outlined. So… I really enjoy training men to take my strap-on anally, orally and doing it properly. I’m one of the few ladies who enjoys fisting her subs, this does not faze me in the slightest. Once the enema I’ve given them has worked it’s magic their rectum is simply a cleaned out place to slip my hand into. They need to be in an ultra-submissive place mentally, and I take that power that’s been handed to me and thrive on it.

    Q9

    Is there an extreme fetish which you cannot perform because you don’t find a brave sub ?

    MZ: No, I’ve found someone for everything I’ve wanted to do. I have a handful of lovely subs that, introduce themselves by stating “I have no hard limits that I know, mistress, I am, over a period of our time together, willing to try anything you want to do to me. I submit to you totally”. This is music to my ears, our journey is a mutually rewarding one.

    Q10

    What are your future plans ? What to expect from you ?

    MZ: Future plans? Learning, enjoying  taking new and established subs on this fun journey. More filming.  Me, just being me. Busy enjoying my sessions and filming days. I would like, in the future to acquire a larger Facility that can be let out to Dommes for filming purposes and sessioning. Pretty much the same as ever, as long as I’m having fun and the phone keeps ringing, I am staying right here.

    Q11

    Anything else you would like to say about life as a Dominatrix? Maybe a dream, some thoughts ?

    MZ: I love being me, it’s fun, surreal. Always learning and improving my skills. Meeting lovely fun subs, regardless of experience, to take on the journey-my take, my altitude to BDSM. Continue to be true to myself. Professional, courteous, at peace with who I am and what I do with fellow consenting adults.  No dream, reality is far more fun!!

     

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